Alpha Male Mindsets

By on December 20, 2012

We all know that we’re supposed to be high-value. We all know that we’re supposed to be an Alpha Male. But do you actually feel like an “Alpha Male?” Is what you’re supposed to be projecting on the outside resonating on the inside? Do you think Alpha Males have approach anxiety? Do you  think an Alpha Male gets upset when a girl says something mean? Do you think Alpha Males need to rely on anything but themselves to talk to girls?

“We become what we think about most of the time” Brian Tracy

You need to think that you are amazing with women. Remind yourself, by saying it in your mind with passion! Say it every day and whenever you are out in public.

1. Thoughts Are Real

It all starts here. The first step is acknowledging the thoughts that you allow to run through your head are directly related to your real world experiences. Thoughts cause emotions and emotions influence behaviors. To become an Alpha Male, you need to be aware of how your daily thought habits are affecting your behaviors and attractiveness to women.

2. Take responsibility

Understand that you, and only you, are responsible for your own thoughts. Successful men have learned this at some point in their lives. Changing habits isn’t always easy, especially if you’ve had them for a long time. But to become more alpha and to attract more beautiful women, you will need to get into a habit of positive thinking. You have to believe you deserve success.

3. Change your inner beliefs through positive affirmations Repeating negative self talk tend to pile up in your subconscious mind. The longer the habit, the harder it is to change. The good news is that you can reverse these negative habits by a process called cognitive restructuring. Take the example “I am becoming an Alpha Male.” At first, your mind might reject this thought because of years of bad negative thinking habits. However, try repeating this phrase for a couple minutes, several times a day, for a couple weeks. It is very important that you visualize and feel your affirmations for maximum results. Then one day, you will catch yourself doing something that you have never done before, like walking up to that hot chick sitting in the book shop and initiating a conversation. Affirmations develop gradually so give it some time.

4. Take action Women are attracted to men who know what they want and aren’t afraid to go after it. Don’t worry about making mistakes. Be willing to make your own decisions, and accept the responsibility of your own choices. When you want something bad enough, you’ll find a way to get it.

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5. Failure is a myth Being rejected by a woman is a fear common to most men. But approaching and being rejected is better than doing nothing. Not only will you learn that it’s no big deal to get rejected, but you can also figure out what you could have done differently the next time.

Sort out your inner game first. Clear out the negativity, and success with women and dating will take care of itself.

One Comment

  1. Ronald Noble

    April 4, 2013 at 8:28 am

    I just read your article on Alpha Male
    Mindsets and I find it surprisingly informative. I have been using most of your points, but did not have much faith in them.
    Maybe it was because I had formulated them, I
    thought they could not be efficacious.

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