How to be a Challenge

By on October 30, 2012

Challenge, is what the woman wants. Plus it is the only thing that will keep her hooked in the long run.

So, you meet an interesting new girl, start talking, and you’re hitting it off. But you start to tell her about your past relationships and you ex-girlfriends. Let’s say that you see eye to eye on many topics, including your past love life; oh, what ? You told your entire life story from the first dates? Now what? You killed the challenge!

“The best way to be boring is to leave nothing out.”  Voltaire

It doesn’t matter how head over heals are you about this girl, only how much is she falling over you! Take control of your blabbing and don’t read her your entire story, let her find out chapter by chapter. It’s more intriguing for her to do the ‘reading’. Be a challenge, an alpha-male, and realize that challenge is the biggest part of relationships that is missing now-a-days.

So, how can you be a constant challenge?challenge

You got to keep her interest in you up, not the other way around. You must show self-esteem and self-control, so don’t be a blabber mouth or worse brag about everything. Let me put this straight, blabbering and bragging only works if you’re a jockey who already has a lot of sexual experience with lots of women, and the only thing that he wants is more sex.

Being in control, like an alpha-male is, means that you keep your emotions in check. It is about keeping your emotions under control rather than letting them rule you. I don’t mean that you become emotionless like a rock, but keep the balance, especially for the first dates.

Having self-esteem is a big part of being confident. Self-esteem is positive energy. It will give you more power, more control over a relationship. If you don’t believe in you, why should anybody else? Bottom line is that you must show her where the line is, but not by saying it!

Be decisive in a relationship. You must make decisions that are good for you also, if you leave all the decision making to her, it’s all downhill from there for you my friend.

An Alpha Male is confident, has high self-esteem, takes decision making in a relationship very seriously and is always in control of his emotions. If you do this the right way she will be head over heals over you and maybe she will be “the one”.

 

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