By on June 22, 2011

Pre-selection is one of the most important alpha male characteristics and it means the communication of value, based on ability to provide evidence of already having women in your life.

Pre-selection is a term that’s borrowed from biology. It has been studied extensively and observed by biologists in other species: females tend to prefer males who have already been chosen by other females of their species. There are several reasons for this for evolutionary biological and sexual selection reasons.

Pre-selection, among all the DHV (demonstrating higher value) characteristics of an alpha male, is often the hardest trait to fake.

Often for women it’s the best indicator of a male’s high value. For instance, what would you think if you saw a guy enter the room having two hot girls on his arms? You’ll definitely not think he’s a wimp, that’s for sure.

The best evidence of pre-selection is to be surrounded with hot looking women. However if you’re just starting out and you don’t have such a social circle, you could convey the presence of women in your life by telling stories in which you had fun times with hot female friends.


  1. Reggie

    July 17, 2012 at 3:58 pm

    Pre-Selection? Iam not really sure i agree with those statements. I believe you may appear too cocky or the player type…surrounding yourself with beautiful women. I kind like the strong silent type approach when entering a room. That usually works best for the Alpha Male. 😉

  2. Steve

    January 13, 2012 at 4:23 pm

    Sooooo that’s why I run after girls with boyfriends :))

    • john miller

      March 5, 2014 at 8:34 pm

      thats pre selection for ya my friend

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