By on January 4, 2011

Closing is when you end your pick up. After you talked with the women, you can either go for contact details, or go for a kiss close, depending on the situation.

When you go for the number close, you should never directly ask for her number. She’s heard tons of guys asking for her phone number and she associates it with clueless pricks who hit on her every day. Instead, what you should say is something like “What steps can we take to continue this conversation?”

This way, if she’s interested in you, she’ll be the one to come up with the idea of giving you her number. If she doesn’t you could suggest exchanging contact details. But never use the phrase “give me your number”, because she’s probably tired of it.

When you go for the kiss close, you could use the kiss test. Play with her hair, look into her eyes, look at her lips. If she’s into it, you can go for it.

However, you shouldn’t go for the kiss close if you didn’t run good game and created some genuine comfort and attraction between the two of you.

And if you want to be the man, after kissing her, back off! Slow down, take it easy. Two steps forward, one step back, and she’ll go crazy. Sweet, right?

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