Going Out

By on March 5, 2011

Where to go

The truth is that you can find beautiful women everywhere. In the park, in the grocery store, in the library, in the mall, at the gym, at starbucks, at the local bar, clubs etc.

In each of these locations, approaching women is basically done the same way. You just need to go talk to them. Use an opener, be it indirect (a canned routine, a situational opener, an opinion) or just go direct. What type of opener you use depends on what you’re most comfortable with and your surroundings. It doesn’t really matter as long as you do one of them, right. Be a man about it, not a needy boy.

On clubs: you should try to find clubs where the music isn’t too loud, because you want to be able to have a few conversations. And if you thought that clubs were the best places to find women, well…you’re wrong. Girls have their bitch shields on while clubbing and it would be a lot easier to meet a cool girl in any other location. It all depends on what you want (a relationship or just casual sex with as many women as possible).

The main reason girls to go to the clubs is to satisfy their need for (self)admiration. They wear their newest mini skirts with a look in their eyes that says “look, but don’t touuch. Don’t get sucked into their reality. In truth, most of them are insecure little girls seeking approval.

Who to go with

When you go out and you want to pick up women, who you’re with is an important aspect. Your company will say a lot about you, so if you’re alone and you don’t know how to handle your shit you’ll seem like a total creep. Going to pick up women alone is probably the hardest way to go. You have to take care of all the obstacles (which you WILL encounter) by yourself.

One option is to go with a wing. A guy or girl that’s there to take care of obstacles such as your target’s fat ugly friend who’ll get upset and start to cockblock if she’ll see you and your girl flirting and having a great time.

The best type of wing to have is a girl. Or more girls! The greatest pick up artists in the world use girls as wings. When they walk into the club surrounded by a pack of hot chicks, they reek of preselection. *link If you’ve got a few hot babe friends with you while in the club, approaching other women will be a lot easier. So remember, wing-girls are the best.


That’s why when going to pick up women you shouldn’t go with a pack of lonely clueless guys who stink of desperation. Again, having women around you will get you one of the most attractive alpha male characteristics: pre-selection.

The next part of the guide is about scoping. The art of knowing your surroundings, making eye contact with girls and using this knowledge to your advantage.

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